There’s a special kind of patience required when your best friend is venting about a guy who is, objectively, not in her league.

• You listen.
• You support.
• You mentally scream.

 

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Loving Your Friend Means Holding Back the Truth

You want to be kind. You want to validate her feelings. But deep down, you know the issue isn’t complicated — it’s misalignment.

When someone is consistently under-delivering, confusing, or unimpressive, the frustration usually isn’t about him. It’s about why she’s settling.

Sometimes the Bar Is Just Too Low

When you see your friend giving energy to someone who isn’t matching it, it’s hard not to feel protective. You know her worth. You’ve seen her standards.

And watching her question herself over someone who doesn’t bring much to the table is exhausting.

Final Thoughts

Being a good friend doesn’t mean encouraging every connection. Sometimes it means quietly hoping she realizes she deserves better — and being there when she does.

Until next time…

Cheers Lovelies!